Misogynistic Academy Awards?

                                        Stephen Fry

          Seth MacFarlane

Thank you for the emails about the Oscars; I always get the same complaint about not being able to put a comment on the site and I am, as usual, at a loss for the answer. I can put a comment on my mate Jim's blog easily enough, and when they ask me who I am, or I have to sign in, I put my Gmail email address and it seems to work.

Well I got a few right didn't I? I put Joaquin Phoenix down for best actor as it was the one performance that I found hard to picture myself doing but I think the hardest one of the bunch would be by Bradley Cooper in Silver Linings Playbook; believe me, and actors may or may not back me up, it's harder to be Tom Cruise or George Clooney than any of the character actors.

Lots of critics over the years have said that Cary Grant was the greatest screen actor because he made it look so easy and I know what they mean. I really like Sean Penn but he failed miserably in The Interpretor and The Game. I also like Gary Oldman but he has to be different in each role.

A word about Daniel Day Lewis; when he does the things he has to do which enable him to give the performances he gives (with me so far?) the things he has done (before he even starts work) should be seen on the screen.

In other words when Robert de Niro put all the weight on to play Jake La Motta we could see what he had done – the same when someone learns to box (Day-Lewis did this so did de Niro), dance or even play tennis. But to spend months talking like Lincoln, being carried to the set and being spoon fed by the crew in My Left Foot, I don't see the need; what did Olivier say? Try acting! Who knows whether he said that or not? But there again, as I've said before, it could be professional jealousy on my part; but what I wouldn't like to see is a young actor starting out thinking all those things need to be done.

I don't suppose they stood for it when he was in Gandhi or The Bounty.

Anyway back to the Oscars – The Academy Awards: It doesn't mean anything. As I said before, the best actor is your particular favourite. If you don't like Daniel Day-Lewis it won't matter how many Oscars he wins you won't like him.

But the difference between the Academy Awards here in the UK (the B.A.F.T.A.s or as they have started calling them the Baftas) and the ones in Los Angeles (the Oscars) is a matter of taste.

The BAFTAs show was a lot funnier than the bits I saw of the Oscars; the difference was more literal. Stephen Fry is funnier and cleverer than the fella in Los Angeles. A lot of people don't like either of them: Fry because he's too clever and the other guy because he's . . . I don't know; why don't they like him? Not clever enough? Not funny enough? Bit of a slob?

Some people do like him but what does that say about them?

Stephen Fry is more like a modern day Oscar Wilde – nobody liked him either; well not many people. Professional jealousy again; just like me!

The BAFTAs were, at least, in good taste as opposed to the misogynistic bits that I saw in Los Angeles; We Saw Your Boobs wasn't anything whether the actresses went along with it or not but it was boring! And all the lip-syncing again!

It's not supposed to be taken seriously - it's a party; parties can't be boring!

I only hope they don't do another movie about Ted Bundy and offer the role to Daniel Day-Lewis!!

The Unexpected Man.

David Dim Bum Bum at St Paul's Cathedral.

I was sitting on the tube the other day and sitting opposite me was a very small man. If he stood up he might have been taller than me but he was tiny in every other aspect. Tiny head, tiny shoulders, tiny thin legs and such a small face. The smallness of his face was exaggerated by the turban he was wearing as he was a Sikh even though his beard had been trimmed and was well kempt. 

Adding to his smallness was a large Crombie bluish looking overcoat which swamped his appearance apart from a knitted tie, which was tied in a Windsor knot, and a silk scarf that lined the border of the V shape of the overcoat aperture. 

It looked as if he would be able to move around quite easily leaving the overcoat where it was.

He was reading from a Kindle and whatever he was reading was attracting all of his attention as his eyes never left the page apart from the very odd blink.

I would say his age was around 25-30 and the reason the Kindle didn't look too small between his hands was they, like his feet, were of normal size; whatever normal size is.

One of the things that attracted me to that man was the intense look in his eyes; was it nervousness? Fear? Or maybe he was reading a horror story or some kind of eerie ghost story?

I asked myself if the Kindle was in Punjabi, for that is the language of the Sikhs and then again I wondered if Punjabi had the same writing system as the west and was used in the Kindle – or was it like this? بھارتی جن-سنکھیا گننا انوسار ہے۔ اس دا پرشاسکی مکھ دفتر.

Then I had a thought; he could be reading one of my novels; they're both on Kindle! Maybe even in Punjabi which is the 2^nd most popular language in the UK.

Maybe I should travel on the tube with a little business card which would say 'Read “Who Was Gertie Ford” by Chris Sullivan' and slip it onto their page as I pass?

There is a play called The Unexpected Man by Yasmina Reza – in fact I should say by Yasmina Reza and Christopher Hampton as he translated it from French to English – which I saw at the Edinburgh Festival in 2002. I also saw it in Los Angeles a couple of years ago with a friend of mind in it and he was excellent.

It's set on a train and is a two hander; one man and one woman. In the version I saw in Edinburgh they used chairs as the set and had train sound effects but in LA they went for the full Monty and had a train carriage, flashing by countryside and sound FX too.

He is a world famous author and she is reading a book called The Unexpected Man which he wrote. He sees what she is reading and she notices him.

The journey is from Paris to Frankfurt and during the journey they have plenty of time to ponder and philosophize – I thought about that play as I looked at my Unexpected Man. Movies about trains always make the journey look luxurious – even if they're documentaries - but when it's icy cold outside and the tube keeps stopping and flinging the sliding doors open at each stop it's a different story.

Keep with this whilst I change the subject – there is a programme on TV here called Question Time. It has a panel of pundits each week made up of a couple of politicians, a journalist and a well known person who has political opinions – as we all do. 

The audience ask stupid questions and the panel is supposed to answer them. The politicians don't, of course, the journalists do and the well known person usually struggles. I don't know why I watch it but I do. It is introduced by David Dim Bum Bum. 

Jonathan Dim Bum Bum (only known picture).

His brother, Jonathan Dim Bum Bum, hosts a show on the radio called Any Questions and they are usually the same questions as on Question Time.

The Dim Bum Bum name is big at the BBC; they have the Dim Bum Bum Lecture each year and the Dim Bum Bum's father was a stalwart of the BBC years ago and his name was Richard Dim Bum Bum; he is acknowledged as being the greatest broadcaster who ever lived; in fact he is the Daniel Day Lewis of broadcasting and it's a wonder they didn't call the BBC the DBB after them.

Last week's episode was recorded at Saint Paul's Cathedral and one of the questions was 'should a woman who has 11 children be given a council house?' - or words to that affect or even effect. The politicians didn't answer it in case they got into trouble with their party leader, the well known personality, who was the former Canon Chancellor of St Paul's Cathedral, The Rev. Giles Fraser, answered it and so did the bellicose journalist but nobody mentioned that it was a stupid question; not even Dim Bum Bum.

I won't tell you what answers they gave but believe me you won't be any the wiser if I did.

In the audience at the recording was my Unexpected Man; the man from the train this time without the overcoat; he was still wearing the same shirt and tie and looking very suspiciously at someone but as small as ever. Here he is:

The Unexpected Man.

Oscar Predictions.

Richard Burton

A truly great actor - never won an Oscar.

Oscar weekend this week, folks. Not that it means anything but people raise money for films on the strength of people winning Oscars and it always gets mentioned but it means nothing because the best actor is – your favourite. Every time.
They say that all the James Bonds will be there at the Oscar ceremony this year but it has also been denied so who knows? Who knows if the show will be as good now that I no longer live around the corner – or near enough – from the theatre.
And who is the new smart Alec introducing it? It will be easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for him to surpass either Billy Crystal or Hugh Jackman in that job!
I haven't seen all the films and even if I was an Academy member I would still vote; I mean people vote for their governments after only seeing the name of the person they have just voted for for the first time.
So here are my predictions which I am putting down here for a bit of fun. I am not going to put Daniel Day-Lewis even though I think he will probably get it for best actor. This is because I am a professional actor and I'm sure there is or must be a certain amount of professional jealousy in me; apart from knowing how he does it and know he presses the right buttons rather like a girl wearing a push up bra and a V necked tee shirt when the rest of the girls wonder how fellas fall for it. I know how Joaquin Phoenix does it too but I wouldn't want to go through that or what Sean Penn did when he played Harvey Milk – just too good and too real – I like a bit of pizazz.
I'm not going through every award – don't forget this is only a bit of fun – you can have a go at me if you like!!!
Best Actor – Joaquin Phoenix (THE MASTER)
Best Actress – Emmanuelle Riva (AMOUR)
Best Supporting Actor – Christoph Waltz (DJANGO UNCHAINED)
Best Supporting Actress – Anna Hathaway (LES MISERABLES)
Best Director – Michael Haneke (AMOUR)
Best Original Screenplay – Quentin Tarantino (DJANGO UNCHAINED)
Best Adapted Screenplay – Chris Terrio (ARGO)
Best Film: well as there are so many and the James Bond film SKYFALL hasn't even been nominated I'm putting 2 choices and they are:
ARGO or LES MISERABLES.
Also – they never put a comedy in for either best actor or best film so, as usual, there is no comedy in the best film category but I do hope Alan Arkin gets it for ARGO.
But it'll be a great day in Los Angeles with all the parties, the busy pizza delivery workers and bar tenders, hookers & pimps, drug addicts and pushers fans and the boys of West Hollywood all around.

Sad story of an actor!

Henry Irving

The first actor to be knighted but nothing to do with this little story.

 
This is a sad story about an actor I once knew. There are plenty of sad stories about actors as we can be sad sometimes; sad through the frustration of the business we are in when we can't do the things we want to do; sad because we're not working or getting the wrong kind of work. I have known very good looking and talented actors who have committed suicide because they were judged by their looks and not their talent. It's no coincidence that movies stars are in Hollywood and not here – movie stars with movie star looks that is.
I had three dealings with this particular actor; he wasn't especially talented, in fact, in some ways, he wasn't talented at all. He wasn't my type of guy, we weren't particularly friendly but I always remembered him. There will be no names here apart from one or two people who have nothing to do with him.
When I first went to drama school there was one student there who was the son of an actor; and that is the actor this little story is about. This student was so good looking he was pretty – so it was irrefutable that he wasn't going to make it here in the land of the nitty gritty drama of Z Cars, Mike Leigh, Tony Garnett et al.
I think a lot of the girls fancied him but he had one problem; he could not say the 'R' sound; I wrote about Jonathan Ross recently - well this fella was 100 times worse.
He may have been tongue tied, I don't know; there are so many people who go through life tongue tied and never get to know it. I don't know if this had a psychological effect on him but . .. well read on and we might see.
I remember he spent hours trying to say an R but his tongue just wouldn't do it for him; his parents should have been horse whipped for letting this situation develop; it is possible to correct when they're young enough; R sounds and lisps – stammering and stuttering need experts, I should think, but when you're an actor you study speech and some people at drama school went on to be speech therapists.
The one big thing we knew about this student was that his father was an actor. It was so important to us; we didn't know where he worked or what kind of work he was doing but he was what we aspired to be; an actor.
In the second year of drama school we were expected to put on plays for the public; these were usually rehearsed for the whole ten week term and performed at the end of it. Not like in the professional theatre where the rehearsal time is a lot less. One play we were doing had the said student in it and everybody knew that his dad would be along. Afterwards students were asking 'what did his dad think?' “what did he say?” I wasn't in that play so I don't know. 
The student once said to me when I asked him what he would do when we left and went in to the big wide world “I'll be all right" he said "I'll sell my arse!”
I don't know whether he did that or not, when the time came, but he was serious.
Going to drama school can be a shock for a lot of people. Some can be knocked down a peg or two as they were the life and soul of the party at the office they worked in but when they arrive at the college they find everybody else is the same – they're all jokers, or rebels or Marlon Brando/James Dean clones. 
Most are a little shocked too by the revelations that some people are gay – it's always been an honest profession as far as that is concerned but at that age it is a shock.
Maybe about five years after I left drama school I was working in a play called An Inspector Calls by J B Priestley. I played the role of the son of a northern industrialist and the role of the industrialist was quite big; we didn't know who was going to play it, then one day the director told us who it was and it was the father of the student I have referred to; I thought the name was familiar.
On the first day of rehearsal he turned up knowing half his lines already; you may think this is promising but during the rehearsal period and the run of the play it never got any better. The truth is that he wasn't an actor at all; he was a conjurer – a magician; that's how he got his equity card.
All his credits – his resumé, his curriculum vitae – were from Rhodesia (which didn't exist at the time although that's what he called it) and were from obscure places; it became quite clear that he had talked his way in to the job and couldn't do it. We helped him, we had to we were working with him, but it was impossible.
Sometimes it felt like we were in the middle of a bull ring with the crowds around toying with us, and we were trying to get out alive. We kind of covered for him on his lines, suggested clues to his next one and some people were getting frustrated. We played to full houses every night and it was quite a big theatre so you can imagine. One time the director asked him what was going on and he said he would take his script home that evening - take his script home!!!!
All the trouble he was causing was going over the top of his head as his friends would come along and 'celebrate' with him; we didn't; we were nervous wrecks. 
It was unbelievable that he would leave his script at the theatre.
I spoke to him about his son, of course; he couldn't remember me from drama school, why would he, and he told me he was in Rhodesia. Zimbabwe, I said and he nodded. It seems his son was a big star there and the next day he brought in some Zimbabwe magazines; they were the very expensive kind and each one had pictures and stories about his son. He was a continuity announcer on television. He sometimes had his own show, I think, and the photos were very glamorous ones and showed him living in luxury. He was proud of him and when his wife came she made herself known to me and we spoke of her famous child and all the things he got up to and how famous he was.
When the play ended I have to say it was a relief to see him go; people in the cast got their sanity back and we carried on to the next play.
Five years or so later his son made the national newspapers in Britain. He had joined a religious cult and he was what some people might call a Jesus Freak. He and another man had seen the devil in some woman and kicked her to death. This happened in England; he was described as an actor and there was a photo of him and his cohort in the press; no mistake.
It was a shock – I spoke to one or two people about it who had known him and eventually it went from my memory until one day I was working for ATV in a situation comedy. We were due to go to Nottingham to film and we rehearsed at the Pineapple Dance Studios in South Kensington. It was a terrible place to hear what we were saying whilst rehearsing as everything echoed and one day one of the old actors complained about it. He was the man who was in Fawlty Towers who played the man with the twitch, Allan Cuthbertson; he would play colonels and he said he couldn't understand the director as he 'doesn't have a consonant in his head.'
Yes you needed to be there!!!!
He was playing a colonel in this particular show and when we went to Nottingham to shoot it, there were plenty of old army colonel types in his scene and one of the extras was the actor; the actor that this piece is about. He was a broken man; the one person he was proud of in his life turned out to be a murderer. I made myself known to him but he couldn't remember me, couldn't remember the play and couldn't remember being in Rhodesia, Zimbabwe or even the continent of Africa; in fact he could hardly speak.

Great plot for a movie . .

. . . a character or maybe even a TV series!! There he is, above – Jasper Maskelyne stage magician; he was born in 1902 and died in 1973, and that's who the film or TV series would be about. It would run for years on TV but would be an equally good film.

Some writers, ideas men, producers, etc, get their ideas in certain ways. They sit in cafés watching how people eat, how they talk to each other and how they generally behave. I don't do any of that; I'm an actor - I go to the zoo but I 'people watch' all the time; I very rarely read when I'm out as I like to see what's going on. If I have an idea for a story it kind of comes to me; I don't write scripts all the time and I suppose if I had to rely on it I might change my MO; but I write this all the time - good or bad.

I like quiz shows; I like Mastermind, University Challenge and I am trying to like Eggheads – these are all shows in the UK. When I lived in Los Angeles I would never miss Jeopardy. Apart from anything else it kept my mind working.

When you buy a computer you look for RAM (random access memory) and that's why I liked Jeopardy. The quiz-master, Alex Trebeck, would give an answer in a particular category and the contestant would have to press a button and give you the question.

Lots of times I could answer before the contestant – but I didn't have to press a button!!

I didn't mind if I didn't know it in the first place but if I knew the answer I would try and bring it to the front of my mind quickly – my random access memory.

The other week on Eggheads the question was 'who invented the coin operated lavatory?'

Now the trouble with Eggheads is that they show you 3 answers so it's multiple choice and I guessed the right answer – a magician; in fact it was Jasper Maskelyne whose picture is at the top of this page.

Magicians, conjurers and illusionists are a mystery to scientists – the clever people, the neuroscientists (I think that's what they are) are fascinated by them.

A magician does something with one part of his body which make everybody who is looking at them look at that part of the body whilst they trick you with the part of their body they are distracting you from seeing. It's amazing what they do.

An American act, Penn and Teller, actually show you how they do their tricks and you still can't figure it out. The 3 cup and balls trick is one of them, and they use see through cups at some point in their act and still fool you.

However, one of them, never speaks; he stands there like Harpo Marx and performs the tricks and on one of the TV shows he was being profiled by a clever fella who filmed him. On one of the takes they hid the magician's face (Penn or Teller) and we could see how he did the trick. It was something he was doing with his face that was distracting us.

Which brings me back to the main point of this post with Jasper Maskelyne – the inventor of the coin lavatory. I have never seen a coin operated lavatory in America, by the way, so my pals over there will just have to believe that they charge you for a pee over here.

During the Second World War, there was a double agent operating in Britain called Eddie Chapman whose code name was agent zigzag. In order to satisfy his German handlers, whom he was supposedly working for too, he had to bomb the De Havilland Aircraft Factory in England.

So the powers that be enlisted the help of Jasper and he made the factory look, from the air, that it had, in fact, been blown up by Mister Chapman.

He did this as an illusion; in fact that wasn't the only thing he did during the war.

The powers that be, of course, was MI5 and after the war they denied all knowledge of his deeds when in fact he virtually worked wonders and shit miracles.

After the successful bombing of the De Havilland Factory he was sent to the Western Desert where he formed the 'Magic Gang' which consisted of an analytical chemist, a cartoonist, a criminal, a stage designer, a picture restorer, a carpenter – oh and one soldier to fill out the military paper work; I mean talk about 'The A-Team.'

Churchill praised their deeds which included building fake submarines, Spitfire aeroplanes, dummy tanks and trucks and at one time they actually hid part of the Suez Canal using a system of revolving mirrors.

They also helped win the battle of El Alamain with magic illusions and tricks; they convinced Rommel that the British counter attack was coming from the south as opposed to the north.

In 1942 they built 2000 dummy tanks and constructed a false pipe line to water the bogus army. This convinced Rommel that progress with the counter attack was slow so he went home for a month and Britain attacked whilst he was away.

Some of the exploits of Jasper Maskelyne are now coming to light but he is dead now and died in Africa where he ended up as a drunken driving instructor; another interesting character.

These pictures are of the De Havilland Factory, then some dummy heads and then dummy tanks.

The movie Argo is getting its just praise and is about something similar – it's about the springing of the American hostages that were trapped in the Canadian Embassy during the Iranian Revolution. They were sprung in the pretence that they were film makers setting up a film.

Not as good as the movie After the Fox, which was directed by Vittoria de Sica, where Peter Sellers played the leader of a gang of thieves who, under the pretence that they are making a movie, persuade the population of a village to be in their film and actually help unload the 'Gold of Cairo' – he plays a Fellini type of Italian film director and there is also a great performance from Victor Mature who sends himself up wonderfully.

Of course the film they make turns out to be a masterpiece when shown in court at the end.

Just Walking In the Rain.

Johnny Ray

Just walking in the rain
Getting soaking wet
Torturing my heart
By trying to forget

Yes those are some of the lyrics of the famous Johnny Ray song (written in 1952 by Johnny Bragg and Robert Riley), and today (Sunday) I was walking in the rain and I got to thinking that in Los Angeles it was something you couldn't do. Mainly because when it rains there it really rains.
The city, or the 83 cities that make up Los Angeles, is built on hills and when it rains it flows from the Hollywood Hills like Niagara Falls; the wide storm drains can hardly contain the water and as it doesn't rain that often, the rubbish that has fallen into those drains, gets washed out to the beach – so that is not the time to go for a swim.
But raining here in London, is a gentler affair – sometimes it's heavy – so you can walk around like Johnny Ray with a broken heart. One time one could go in to a pub and shelter from the weather but these days most of those pubs are closing; I might have mentioned it before!
But it's the pubs' own fault – or their owners – for they went for the wrong type of customer. People come from all over the world to visit the London pubs but because the old local pubs sold out to the young and the sports fans they're going to be disappointed. Recently pubs had been turned in to sports bars with TVs all over the place and customers just buying drinks when play slowed down.
Before that the pubs were just excuses for one armed bandits and other types of gambling and gaming machines so the landlord could fly off to the sun for their holidays a few times a year. If you asked for a whiskey or even a whisky you got a measured half an inch in the bottom of a glass and if you wanted tonic with it, or another kind of mixer, you are drinking the most expensive drink in the round.
So is it no wonder that the expensive cold devoid of atmosphere and ambiance places are being closed at around 50 – 100 a week; depending on which report you believe.
In Los Angeles the bar man just pours from the bottle and hopes to give you a good measure but here – you can get drunk for a fraction of the cost in a pub from a supermarket.
The bottoms of my jeans were slightly damp today, as I walked, and in the old days I might have gone in to the pub I passed, which was boarded up, and dried my trousers by the warm fire – real or otherwise.
You can kind of do that in Los Angeles, in a way, by walking right through the bar and sitting in the sunshine at the back!
Los Angeles is not a safe place at the moment, for the police, as a renegade cop who has been fired by the LAPD, is wandering around fully armed and taking revenge on members of the department he blames for his dismissal.

Memorial to an Irvine couple and a Riverside police officer dead allegedly by Dormer.

His name is Christopher Dormer and he is built like a brick shit house; he has killed at least one cop and other cops have fired upon two pick ups by mistake driven by people not matching the description of the suspect.
There's a million dollar award, some of it donated by Dodger fans, for the capture of Dormer; there's always something going on in Los Angeles which is on the news every day. When we lived there a crocodile was in one of the lakes and nobody knew where it came from; that kind of disappeared when another big news story hit the headlines; but that's another story.
By the way Dormer was fired in 2008.
So that's what they are looking at and reading about in Los Angeles – they probably don't know that the Ben Affleck movie, Argo, has just won best film and best director at the British Oscars - the BAFTAs; but would they have known in any case?

Congratulations to Ben Afflick.

The Hermit in me!!

There he is! Spring Heel Jack. Goes walking over hills and mountains all by himself; looks at the views, talks to no one; solitude.

I've done all that; I have been on that spot in the picture at the top but that isn't me; that was at Cape Wrath when I walked the width of it at the top of Scotland; I also walked across the Brecon Beacons, Dartmoor, Trawsfynyd (no idea where that place is with the Lynyrd Skynyrd spelling, but I know I've been there) and lots of other places with just a rucksack on by back and, usually, a very bad stove which I could never get to work.

Looking back it was a challenge – but was it fun? I don't really know and a lot of the time I was sorry I had started after about five minutes from being dropped off.

It was a bit like being a hermit.

I was listening to the radio the other day and it was about a Hermit; she justified her existence but said that she said hello to the neighbours, did her shopping etc but said she definitely was a hermit.

I didn't get from her the reason for her solitude or whether she liked it or not but there are moments in my life when I want to be alone but not too many.

I remember years ago when my wife would go out and leave me to baby sit. I planned my evening from the time she went out the front door.

First of all I would look through my record collection and choose which LP I would play first (yes they were LPs not albums) – shall I play The Beatles, maybe Pachelbel's Cannon or some Miles Davies?

Mmmmm – ah!! Edison Lighthouse!! Love Grows (where my Rosemary goes) – happy music, happy memories!

I would put it on, get myself a drink and pick up the newspaper - and see!!!!!

'Something great on TV' so off with the music and on with the goggle box!!

When my wife returned she would find me doing the things that I would have done in any case.

No loose women, no boys around for a poker school just an ordinary evening by myself.

But I got to thinking, and as I listen now whilst typing to Johann Pachelbel's wonderful music, about the hermit on the radio who lived in the middle of a busy city in her solitude; I am no longer - nor was I ever, I suppose - the lonely man on the hill. It's great breathing in that fresh air, but I really do like people. In fact I love them and I make a point to meet people every day. I talk to people in the Supermarket that I meet – well I have to say they are mostly women as I don't like to be too blokey (vegetarians can look at the meat menu, can't they?) – I go for coffee every day, usually with my wife but if she's not available by myself.

I have noticed the coffee culture in Britain since my return and the demise of the pub. I like pubs too but they sell mainly alcohol and I would see men sitting by themselves reading newspapers, doing crosswords, but drinking; getting closer to intoxication which might not have been too good for them; maybe inhaling smoke? But now we are in the smokeless, sterilised, paralysed atmosphere of the safer and clean coffee shop environment, listening to the soft music – muzak – no it's not muzak they play Dylan, blues, the aforementioned Pachelbel canon in d, and we are lulled in to a stupefying state of euphoria like the women in The Stepford Wives.

As I said I would notice the men but they would notice me too - approaching some kind drunkenness and euphoria – so what's the difference?

We could stay in our homes, make our own excellent coffee and play our own Canon in 'D' and maybe look at the moving pictures on our TV screen or get a tank of tropical fish to look at.

Yes I go for coffee every day but the coffee shop I go to is a 20 minute walk away so when I get there I feel ready for it and when I've finished I feel invigorated and I come back and type something like this – maybe I should stay off the coffee???